Sunday, September 30, 2012
Fall Sports
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Sunday, September 23, 2012
This little piggy...
go back in.
.....a little distance
or not.
And we even had some midly normal conversations.
Climbed into bed.
It was an exhausting day,
after a long day of work.
And I can only hope that a lesson was learned.
I can only hope that my
loosing it, getting as equally frustrated
doesn't scar them
...too much.
This 6 year old thing is tough.
This being a mommy thing is tough.
I declare the day a success if we survive it.
I really, really relish the happy, loving moments.
The goofiness.
I remind myself that it would have been
sooooooooooooooo easy
to have just ignored their crime
sooooooooooooooo easy
to just go get the frickin' doughnuts.
But that
"easy"
isn't
always
best.
And I remind myself that once they fall asleep,
I can sneak into their room
and loose myself in their beautifulness.
Posted by Donna at 5:24 PM 2 comments
Thursday, September 20, 2012
1st Grade
Posted by Donna at 7:45 PM 1 comments
Saturday, September 8, 2012
And.....we're back!
I hadn't intended on taking the sumer off from blogging, but it was a nice little break!
Also, the boys weren't exactly "cute and funny" this summer! hahaha
Seems they did really, really well at their camps, and for their sitter and mostly, for Nonnie. But....they saved up the good nasty, hot and tired attitudes/meltdowns for Mommy. When they did this at 2 and 3 (and even 4 and 5), I had a lot of patience. A lot. But at 6 - it's not so much fun anymore. And my patience seems to have finally worn off a tad. I spent a lot of my summer pretty darn tired and exhausted. Then again, mother nature has continued to bless me and my womanly ways and "that time" when a woman usually starts um, slowing down, has arrived much earlier for me. So, my attitude *may* just have a little to do with that as well! ;-)
And yet - in other ways, it was the easiest summer we have had yet. The boys got to go to their school for a free country rec program Mon thru Thurs from 8 to 2:30. Cannot. begin. to say what a BLESSING that was. It kept them in a routine. Kept them with friends. Wore them out. Diverted the whole need to complain about "boring" summers. and hello - it was FREE!
So, their schedule went like this: Wake up, dress, grab packed lunch, head to camp, play, play, play, arts and crafts, down time, outside play, more play. Nonnie or the babysitter would pick them up, bring them home - where they would then demand to be fed non-stop for 2.0 hours while vegging out on the couch and tv. Re-energize around 5ish, berade Mommy and Daddy all evening with "Entertain us! Play sports with us! Spend money on us! Take us places!" And then (thankfully) early bedtime.
We all did the best we could. But not a lot of noteworthy blog pictures to take in that above scenario!
We did have lots of swimming, a few day trips to the beach. Unbelievable, nasty HOT temperatures and then a very mild August.
And in typical summer fashion, there were a lot of other things going on too, like:
Church Summer camp, Theatre camp, fishing, swimming, working on the musical at church, VBS, hanging with their new FAB babysitter:
In other news, Evan came and went - this year causing very little disruption to the twins anxiety levels. I'ld say it was rough for the first week he was home and tough again the week before he was leaving. Christmas 2011 sort of did Evan in. The twins were just out of control - with dad's new job and two weeks away training, the excitement of Christmas, the change in schedule with school break - it was all too much! ;-) They were holy terrors for about 6 weeks...if not longer! But I think we would all agree the summer went much better. And there were even a few moments of returning to the fun and goofey times between the three of them. Right, Evan? ....do you even check the blog anymore? ;-)
I hate that this post sounds all kinda debbie-downer, lol, but it is reality. It's our life. The twins' life. They are soooo full of energy. They are cuddly and snuggily one moment and then, feet planted in cement - not budging, demanding little twirps the next and then all out fit throwing, temper tantrum kid-cussing (they don't really cuss, but if they could, I'm pretty sure their rants would be laden with them!) knockdown, drag out fits! Gary and I have sought the help of a wonderful family counselor - who has helped us....help them. We have all noticed a marked changed in the boys. The fits are shorter. We handle them better. Recovery is more satifying - for all parties. We know that this will be the ebb and flow of our lives. There is no "cure" no "end" to their issues. And we are now in an optimistically good place to work with the boys through their more trying times. Although, dear Lord, please, PLEASE send re-enforcement angels during Austin's teen years. I. am. begging.
Okay - longest post in the history of my blog. Back to Summer 2012
Next up, back to school, the beginning's of Logan's football career, and Austin joins the fall swim team!
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